Jun
07
2011

The Perfect Marriage Proposal Date

Asking someone to take your hand in marriage is a serious step. Most people want to plan the perfect date for this event. Even without a lot of money you can make this very romantic and intimate. Here are a few pointers to help you out.

Pick A Special Place

A fancy restaurant will work, but you should try to make it more personal. If you shared something special early on in your dating life, try to incorporate this in to the proposal. For instance, if you went to a botanical garden for a walk and picnic and had a great time, consider trying to relive that experience somehow. If you make the event personal it will mean so much more than just popping the question at an expensive restaurant.

The Right Words

Choosing the right thing to say is just as important as the ring. While simply asking ‘will you marry me’ will suffice, she will remember it much more if you say something from the heart. Tell her why you love her. Tell her about that one special thing about her that you can’t live without. Inject humor in to this is you want as well. The point is, spend some time before going over all of this and prepare a speech. It will mean a lot more this way. One note on this – many people choose to use some method to keep notes for the speech. When the moment actually arrives you may find yourself too nervous to remember a long speech. Jotting down some quick notes in a place that she won’t likely see it will help keep you on track.

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May
10
2011

How To Date For Marriage

While many people date for companionship and fun, others are ready to settle down and find a suitable partner for marriage. Unfortunately, finding others who are up for this may be hard to find if you aren’t looking in the right places. Here are a few tips that can help you out.

Look In the Right Places

Signing up for a membership on an adult dating site probably won’t’ get you very far when it comes to marriage. You need to find a site that has a stronger focus on long term relationships. Once you find the right site you’ll need to be honest about this in your profile. If you don’t say that you are looking for something long-term and serious, you won’t get the responses you want.

Take it Slow

When you do meet someone that you are compatible with, you still need to take it slow. Yes, you want to get married. But does that have to happen in the next month? Avoid mentioning marriage on the first several dates. This can scare your date away, even if they also want to settle down. The most solid relationships started slowly and progressed naturally. Allow this to happen.

Timing

Timing is everything, especially when it comes to wanting to settle down. Don’t move your date in after the 2nd date. Wait until the time feels right for both of you. When you get to the point where you are already spending a lot of time together and are sleeping over at your dates often, then it may be a good time to approach the topic of taking the next step. If your date feels bombarded or pressured, they may run the other direction, even if they want marriage too.

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Apr
21
2011

Falling Head Over Heels for Your Date

The dating world can be a strange place. It’s not uncommon to feel very intensely for someone after a first or second date. Before you decide to express your new found feelings, ask yourself a few questions first.

Physical Reactions

If your body reacts physically when you’re around your date, it’s a pretty good sign. Some things to watch for are intense emotions, tingly feelings, nervous sweating, and constant smiling. These can signal a deeper connection. With lust you will still react, but in a different way. You may be nervous, but you won’t feel giddy with anticipation.

Positive Thoughts

If you find yourself thinking positively about the future with no worries, it’s also a good indication that it may be more than just lust or infatuation. Once you start seeing the rest of the world in a bright way, it may be love.

Concerned About Them

If you find yourself planning things out of concern for your date, this is a sign of more than just infatuation. When we start to really care deeply about someone we want to make them happy. We also want to make sure they are healthy and overall okay. If you find yourself thinking about their wants and needs over your own, you may have fallen in love.

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Mar
30
2011

Techniques to Find Your Perfect Match

Finding your perfect match is easier than you may think. So many people get caught up looking for perfect that they miss it when it’s right in front of them. Here are a few ways you can find the perfect match without missing it.

Be Open

If you keep telling yourself that you are waiting for perfect, you’re going to miss it when it actually comes along. Be open. Don’t turn down dates just because you’re still waiting. Many people get caught up in this trap, and end up single for a long time wondering what went wrong.

Look At Your Expectations

If perfect to you means 5’8”, 120 pounds, blonde hair, blue eyes, and an IQ of 140, you’re going to be waiting a long time. This person probably does exist, but they are also probably not perfect for you. Instead pick out a few things that are absolute deal breakers. Does the hair color and height really matter? If so, then you’re going to have to be prepared to wait a while to find the perfect person.

Where Are You Looking

If you’re looking for the perfect mate but not exploring your options, you may end up alone for a while. Broaden your horizons and don’t be afraid to try new things such as swinging. Also know when it’s time to move on. If you have been a member of a website for a few months and you aren’t getting results, try another site. Most people will only pay for short term memberships, either monthly or quarterly, just for this reason.

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Feb
09
2011

How to Find a Marriage Date

Finding someone who is marriage worthy isn’t something that can be done overnight. Once you have found that special person, planning the date for the marriage is also challenging. Here are some things to consider when you start planning the I Do day.

Think of the Location

Having a beach wedding in December isn’t going to be a great idea unless you’re heading to the Virgin Islands. The marriage location will have a lot to do with the time of the year. A fall wedding outdoors can be beautiful, but bitter cold in some areas. These are all things to consider when planning the date.

Think of the Guests

Are you planning on getting hitched without any guests? Then great! You get to choose whatever day works for you. However, most people do want guests at the marriage day. If you plan a beautiful winter wedding the weekend before Christmas, you’re going to end up with a short RSVP list and guests that had to run around to make time for the wedding. You can still have a winter wedding theme and push the date up a month to alleviate travel issues. Also consider that with destination weddings a date well in the future is best. This will give guests time to get all their travel arrangements in order.

Avoid the Clichés

Yes, Valentines Day is all about romance. However, planning a wedding for this day is overdone, not to mention a lot more money. You can pick a date that is special to you both, such as the first time you kissed or the first date, without getting involved in cheesy clichés that everyone will hate.

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Jan
07
2011

Tips on Looking For A Serious Relationship

Many people who are on the dating circuit aren’t looking for just casual time wasters. For many, settling down with the right person is a priority. If you are one of these people, here are some time-saving tips that will help you find the right person.

Take it Slowly

Don’t expect to sign up for a dating site and find the love of your life the next week. You need to take your time and make sure you form a connection. It’s easy to feel instant connections online, and this can often be mistaken for love. The only way to know for sure if it’s going to work is to go slow, meet several times, and see where things go. If you still have intense feelings after the first couple of dates, then it’s a good sign.

Look at the Right Places

Posting a profile or advert on a site that is more focused on hook ups and NSA relationships isn’t going to land you a long term mate. Be selective about where you put your profiles. General dating sites and sites that are more focused on long term relationships will get you much better results.

Take Advantage of the Technology

Video dating and live chat have moved the online dating community forward tremendously. Video dating allows you to talk to someone in real time and eliminate the jitters of the first date. You get to see them and interact with them without leaving your home. This helps to break the ice and will create a smoother meeting when you do finally get face to face time.

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